10 Wishes For My Children

With so many things going on now a days it is hard not to think what can happen tomorrow.  All I can think of when we have terrorist attacks or mass shooting like the one that just took place this past weekend, is my girls.  It honestly makes me sad at the world they have to grow up in.  I try not to let fear get the best of me but its hard not to feel fear and anger when these types of things happen.  When uncertainty takes the best of us, our minds become unsteady and we start to think, “What if I was there.  What if I was one of the victims.  What if someone I knew was affected.”  So many things come to mind and wish so hard I could change the world for my children.  I know I alone can’t do that but if we put hate aside for just a bit and start focusing on being kind to one another, without worrying about faith, color of your skin, political party, religion, or what ever reason that gets in the way, we could really create a different world.

My girls are my everything and want what is best for them and their future.  Just thinking about all these tragedies and the uncertainty world we live in I want them to know what mommy wish for them during these times.

  1. I wish for you to grow up in a world you can trust, feel secure, and be happy.  One person can’t change the world but if we all put in our five cents, then it will add up and you will be part of that change.
  2. I wish for you to grow up to be a decent and respectable person.  If you see someone in need offer help, do what you can to reach out and help others.  Never put anyone down, never bully anyone, or make them feel less.  We are all created equal and deserve to be respected by all.
  3. I wish for you to be independent.  No, you don’t need a man to support you.  You become the person you deserve.  Provide for yourself and feel proud of being able to take care of yourself.  Never feel less if you have to be a stay at home mommy though because I am fortunate enough to be able to see you grow everyday and that is the best gift a mommy can have.  Overall find your passion and be happy.
  4. I wish for you to know that I may not be the best mommy but I really did try.  I may not be the mommy who gives all organic, gluten free, sugar free food but just know you were well feed.  I may loose my temper once in a while but mommy still loves you no matter what.
  5. I wish for you to follow your dreams and don’t let anyone stop you from pursuing what you want in life.  Don’t let money stop you in any way because there is always a way.  Never give up on your dreams and hopes for that is what keeps us going everyday. Learn to take risk but always be careful and learn to walk away.  Yes, you can be president of the United States one day and trust me you will be a darn good one.  Dream BIG!
  6. I wish for you to know that mommy will always be there in times of need.  I will be your shoulder to lean on and cry on.  I will be there for you!
  7. I wish for you to always be proud of who you are and where you came from.  You are one of a kind and that is something no one can ever take away from you.  We are all the same even though our color of our skin is different, in the inside we all have one heart, one soul.  Always love yourself, love your life.
  8. I wish for you a healthy life.  Treat your body right and it will treat you right.  Eat healthy but also know when to indulge a bit.
  9. I wish for you to always have your sister to lean on and family to guide you.  Always know that your sister will be your side kick and will be there for you all your life.  Family is one bond no one can ever break.  I wish for both of you to make each other happy.
  10. I wish for you dance like no one is watching.  Live Love Laugh.  Never loose that spark that makes you special.  Never stop being silly.

Know that the best is always yet to come.  Even through the cloudy dark times, the sun will come out again.  Everyday is a new day and a fresh start to a new beginning.  I love you Aubrey and Kate.  You will always be my little girls today and forever.



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2 responses to “10 Wishes For My Children”

  1. these are really hearttouching wishes to read! Thank you for sharing!


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